Feeling Hurt in Close Relationships
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- Editor: Anita L. Vangelisti, University of Texas, Austin
- Date Published: July 2009
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- format: Hardback
- isbn: 9780521866903
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Feeling Hurt in Close Relationships presents a synthesis of cutting-edge research and theory on hurt. Being hurt is an inevitable part of close relationships. What varies from relationship to relationship is not whether partners hurt each other, but how their relationship is affected by hurtful episodes. Given the potential influence of hurt feelings on people’s interpersonal relationships, it is not surprising that scholars have begun to study the antecedents, processes, and outcomes associated with hurt. This collection integrates the various issues addressed by researchers, theorists, and practitioners who study the causes of hurt feelings, the interpersonal events associated with hurt, and the ways people respond to hurting and being hurt by others. To capture the breadth and depth of the literature in this area, the work of scholars from a variety of disciplines – including social psychology, communication, sociology, and family studies – is highlighted.
Read more- Up-to-date reviews, broad range of topics, deep analysis, and balanced perspectives on controversial issues
- Distinguished contributors
- Coherent presentation of multidisciplinary perspectives on an emotion that can affect individuals and their close relationships
Reviews & endorsements
“In this volume, Anita Vangelisti, a pioneer in the study of hurt in close relationships, brings together a host of leading scholars to analyze theory and research on this neglected topic. The volume reflects a plethora of contexts and populations in which hurt occurs. We learn that hurt is pervasive in human life and involves fundamental qualities such as the perceived loss of security and safety, along the dimension of whether a person's behavior is seen as intentional or not. The book should be a valuable reference work for scholars, practitioners, and teachers in graduate and undergraduate courses and in diverse fields, including communication studies, family studies, various areas of psychology and sociology, and social work. Overall, the book will elevate the concept of hurt, with its many nuances and implications, to a much greater status in the field of close relationships.”
– John H. Harvey, Emeritus Professor of Psychology, University of Iowa
See more reviews“In this important new volume, Anita Vangelisti has assembled a simply outstanding group of contributors, representing the leading scientists in the field of interpersonal relations. Feeling Hurt in Close Relationships is especially timely because of the strong focus on experiences of rejection in recent theory and research. The book presents an exciting and cutting-edge treatment of this very significant topic.”
– John G. Holmes, University of Waterloo, Canada
“This volume is unquestionably THE authoritative work on the topic and likely to be so for years to come. Vangelisti has assembled a cast of prominent international experts from several academic disciplines to view hurt feelings with varied lenses.”
– Sally Planalp, University of Utah
"...The book opens up areas of exploration and action that bring scholarship down to earth and support good clinical practice... The book is meant for graduate students, scholars, researchers, and practitioners... The book provides new vistas for specialists in marriage, adult friendships, children’s peer groups, family dynamics, postdivorce negotiations, victimology, forgiveness, trust, aggression and violence, bullying, effects on perpetrators, mental health, the workplace, the Internet, and cross-cultural studies... This exemplary collaboration moves various disciplines and academic fields ahead with a unifying human science and philosophy..."
– E. James Liebermann, PsycCRITIQUES"...This volume provides a thorough, readable examination of emotional vulnerability in close relationships... Providing many valuable insights, this collection makes a distinctive contribution to understanding interpersonal relationships... Highly recommended..."
--S. Halling, Seattle University, CHOICE
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- Date Published: July 2009
- format: Hardback
- isbn: 9780521866903
- length: 548 pages
- dimensions: 235 x 158 x 40 mm
- weight: 0.9kg
- contains: 10 b/w illus. 9 tables
- availability: Available
Table of Contents
Foreword
Part I. Introduction:
1. Hurt feelings: forms, functions, and overview Anita L. Vangelisti
Part II. Conceptualizing Hurt:
2. The nature of hurt feelings: emotional experience and cognitive appraisals Mark Leary and Sadie Leder
3. Thinking the unthinkable: cognitive appraisals and hurt feelings Julie Fitness and Wayne Warburton
4. Adding insult to injury: the contributions of politeness theory to understanding hurt feelings in close relationships Daena Goldsmith and Erin Donovan-Kicken
5. Rejection sensitivity: a model of how individual difference factors affect the experience of hurt feelings in conflict and support N. Jan Kang, Geraldine Downey, Masumi Iida and Sylvia Rodriguez
6. Understanding and altering hurt feelings: an attachment-theoretical perspective on the generation and regulation of emotions Phillip R. Shaver, Mario Mikulincer, Shiri Lavy and Jude Cassidy
Part III. Hurtful Acts:
7. Rejection: resolving the paradox of emotional numbness C. Nathan DeWall, Roy Baumeister and E. J. Masicampo
8. Conflict and hurt in close relationships John P. Caughlin, Allison M. Scott and Laura E. Miller
9. When the truth hurts: deception in the name of kindness Bella M. DePaulo, Wendy L. Morris and R. Weylin Sternglanz
10. Affairs and infidelity Graham Allan and Kaeren Harrison
11. Aggression, violence, and hurt in close relationships Brian H. Spitzberg
Part IV. Hurt in Relational Contexts:
12. Aggression and victimization in children's peer groups: a relationship perspective Noel A. Card, Jenny Isaacs and Ernest V. E. Hodges
13. Haven in a heartless world? Hurt feelings in the family Rosemary Mills and Caroline C. Piotrowski
14. Hurt feelings in adult friendships Beverley Fehr and Cheryl Harasymchuk
15. When love hurts: understanding hurtful events in couple relationships Judith A. Feeney
16. Hurt in postdivorce relationships Sandra Metts, Dawn O. Braithwaite and Mark A. Fine
Part V. Hurt in Applied Contexts:
17. The physiology of feeling hurt Timothy J. Loving, Benjamin Le and Erin Crockett
18. Hurt and psychological health in close relationships Scott R. Braithwaite, Frank D. Fincham and Nathaniel M. Lambert
19. Technology and hurt in close relationships Monica Whitty
20. Hurt feelings and the workplace Michael R. Cunningham, Anita P. Barbee and Eshita Mandal
21. Cultural influences on the causes and experience of hurt feelings Robin Kowalski
22. Hurt feelings: the last taboo for researchers and clinicians? Luciano L'Abate.
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